As years go by more people are starting to realize that gay rights really is not a big deal and should be available to every same sex couple. More citizens are becoming aware that gay marriage should be at the couple's discretion. Marriage should be about two people who are in love wanting to combine their lives in every way. It should not matter if it is two men, two women, or one of each. If someone loves another person, gender or race should not be a contributing factor to the all famous question "is it the right thing to do?". National government tends to bud in and justify why they think gay marriage is not constitutional. However, in my personal opinion, that is just disrespectful. Gay or not gay, the two people are in love... what makes them so different? Who is to say they are not in love just as much as the straight couple. Gay rights should be legal in all states, and not just in select states that the government thinks is appropriate. How would you like it if you had found your soul mate and was told no you can not get married because you are the same sex. It just does not make sense. The government in the US states that we have the separation of church and state. How can the state make decisions based on old church standards? Personally, the government should stay out of this argument, and allow people who have 'free rights' be able to make life decisions on their own. These people should not be looked down upon because of their sexual orientation, they are just like straight couples.
As a free country we should allow everyone to have equal rights, no matter race, or gender. If the government keeps choosing who they grant equal rights too, they might as well declare this country as free, but free to a user's discretion.
